So why are you taking advantage of her? Why are you making her cry when all she has done is shown you love and encouragement? Why do you think it’s okay to risk the best thing you have ever had because you’re feeling selfish and know she won’t leave?
What if one day she does leave? What if another man comes in, in her time of need, and steals her from you, what are you going to say then? Are you going to finally be angry at yourself for not trying hard. For expecting this good woman to stay, because she has an amazing heart and a love like no other. You will be losing someone so loyal, and it will happen.
Because this girl you have is 1 in a billion. A woman who has her shit together and knows what she wants is a woman who is going to go far in life. She has goals and aspirations and nothing is going to stand in her way of achieving those, not even you.
But right now, she loves you with everything in her. She doesn’t think of your bad habits as an issue. She see’s them as a chapter in your life that you need, but will get through. She has so much faith in you at times she is completely blind… And you know that.
You know that she loves you so much that anything you do she will most likely get over, even being a bad boyfriend. But that’s not fair to her and eventually, she will catch on.
It’s also not fair that you are okay with being a shitty person while she is working on herself to be a better person for herself and also for you.
It’s not fair that you think it’s fine to do whatever the hell you want, but she has to be the perfect girlfriend. You expect so much from her, yet you think it’s okay for you to do nothing.
You need to wake up because if you don’t one day she will realize you’re not her future. She will realize that your work ethic isn’t where it needs to be. She’ll see how the person she loved with everything in her was taking advantage of her and it will break her heart.
It will be the worst moment of her life because you do have so much potential. But potential doesn’t make happiness. And neither does a man who doesn’t put his woman and her heart first.
So don’t be stupid. Don’t lose the girl who will be the best thing you will ever get because you will regret it.
And trust me, she won’t regret losing you.
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